Why Women End Relationships
Why Women End Relationships
Have you ever read the book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, by Dr. John Gray? If you haven’t, it’s a really great book that explains the vast differences between the two sexes. Because women and men are so different, that’s why you can’t expect to treat them both the same and get the same results. If it were only that easy!
Women end relationships for different reasons then men. Women are usually pretty darn loyal all the way to the very end. It’s when they stop feeling appreciated that makes them want to leave. Men mostly think that women are “high maintenance” because they seem to crave a lot of attention. The reality of it is that it’s not the attention that they need; it’s the feeling that they are appreciated. Like when they leave little love notes for you or call to just hear your voice during the day.
Women will go outside the relationship and find comfort elsewhere because they are looking for the attention that they aren’t finding in their current partnership. This is why the “Don Juan’s” and the “Casanovas” are successful at seducing women because they are giving them the attention that is lacking in their current relationship. Their first step is they want to be their friend and they really listen to what they are saying. From there the conversation goes to how ungrateful their man is and how blind he is to how wonderful she is. The next thing you know, he is showering her with appreciation and attention that she desires and he’s now the new man in her life.
If the woman is the one cheating it’s usually because he no longer pays attention to her, she may feel very lonely or she just needs someone to talk to. I’m definitely not here to condone cheating, but those are usually the excuses why women cheat.
Women will also end a relationship when there is constant arguing. When couples argue it’s not about the petty things that they bring up that they are arguing about. There is always an underlying issue involved. Where women are concerned, it usually falls right back to not feeling appreciated. Ever attend couples counseling? What were the main issues that were brought up? I bet they were not feeling appreciated and not getting enough attention.
Although there are so many different things that can go wrong in a relationship, not feeling appreciated and not getting enough attention are usually at the very top of that list. If both partners would show more affection, attention and appreciation for each other, there would be fewer reasons for relationships to end.
Adrienne Smith is a work at home business owner but also a woman who enjoys helping others mend their relationships. Love definitely makes the world go round so when you are having any type of relationship issues, sometimes you just need to learn how you can resolve those problems. To find out how to make that happen, I invite you to click here NOW! You won’t regret your decision.
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